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The No Chocolate Challenge

November 6, 2019 By nextphaseinfitness 15 Comments


The ‘No Chocolate’ Challenge

This isn’t a real challenge that somebody came up with and was such a good idea that everyone was jumping on board to partcipate. No this is my personal little challenge. Just for me. Made up for me and by me. And for no reason other than  that it sounded like a good idea at the time. It just felt right to do it.

Lately, I’ve been thinking of mindfulness, because  I seem to have had a positive mindset in relation to my health and fitness and everything seems to be falling into place. The main reason for my focus on this at the moment is that today is the 61st  day since I gave up eating chocolate. In that time, I have eaten no chocolate of any kind.

Way back in August, I made the decision that from the first day of September, I would give up chocolate for one month. Give up chocolate? Me? For 30 days? Surely not they all said! It could be said that chocolate plays a big a role in my life. Too big! I was feeling that it was becoming over important and I needed to cut the ties.

As it was also the first day of spring, I felt that it would be a good idea to do a bit of a ‘spring clean’ and concentrate on eating only healthy food. So here we are at the beginning of November and I’ve now been chocolate free for 61 days. Can you believe that?

I’m still struggling to come to terms with the fact that I’ve done it and I’m doing it. I knew that after making the decision, I would do it for 30 days. I would struggle, but I would do it. Halfway through September, I decided to continue the challenge until Christmas Eve. By then, it will be almost four months since I’ve had chocolate. I never dreamed at the start, that this chocolate free lifestyle would continue on until the end of the year.

Mindset

It was a week before September that I decided that the no chocolate challenge was going to happen. I knew that it wouldn’t happen without work. I knew it would be difficult and I also knew that I would struggle big time. My favourite snack of all time is chocolate – any kind of chocolate. And we all love our snacks , right? I turn to chocolate for a snack for any reason at all. I could be hungry, happy, sad, excited, missing my children and my grandchildren, worried, busy, lazy. Any reason you can think of, was a good enough reason for me to each chocolate.

Regular readers would know that I’ve been participating in maxineschallenge the whole of 2019 and have loved it. I’ve followed the programs, both exercise and nutrition. But the only thing that prevents me from following the nutrition program completely is that there is no chocolate there. As well as following this healthy lifestyle program, I have also been eating chocolate, whenever I felt like it. I was feeling a bit of a fraud doing this, while telling everyone about my experience of Maxines.

So, I knew that I would have to work on my mindset. The strategy I came up with was Craig Harper. Decades ago when I was managing the gym, Craig Harper was considered the guru by anybody involved in the fitness industry. At the time, I was teaching aerobics classes with no qualification at all. There was no such qualification in those days, until Craig devised one. I was in the first country intake of that course, and I’ve followed him with interest ever since.  I’ve been following his  Whiteboard lessons on Instagram, and loving the no nonsense advice and inspiration he gives there.

But I’d only been skimming his posts and not really giving them any thought until I decided to get serious about giving up chocolate. Craig has a podcast called The You Project which I’d recommend to anyone interested in health, fitness, selfhelp or just generally good conversation with people who are doing, or have done, amazing things. In the week after I decided to give up chocolate, I went back and listened to many of those episodes again, and picked the bits and pieces to focus on,  that related to what I was doing.

I also subscribed to his course Renovate Your Life This is a gem. There is so much positive and inspirational information given in Craig’s usual no nonsense way, and I just sucked it all up. I listened to every episode once, and then went back and listened again. This time, taking notes in my journal, and noting down anything that came into my head, both good and bad, as the episodes unfolded.

Why the Success?

I put it down to a few things all aligning together at the right time. I had been doing Maxine’s Challenge for nine months and getting decent results, but feeling frustrated at not getting fantastic results. Of course, I knew the reason for that and what was holding me back. I totally committed to doing work on my mindset, which I am sure was the catalyst for the no chocolate challenge not being a huge challenge for me. To get myself in the right mindset, I needed to be honest and authentic with myself and I didn’t much like what I saw. A person who was healthy and fit, who spouted about health and fitness. But a person who ate chocolate. I could no longer allow myself to get away with that.

After The Challenge?

As the days get crossed off the calendar towards ‘C’ Day, I find that I really don’t care about being able to eat chocolate again on Christmas Eve. When I first set this goal, all I could think about was how I would feel eating that first chocolate and how proud I would feel. I will definitely still feel proud. And I will definitely eat chocolate on Christmas Eve. But to be honest, at the moment, thinking about that day, I could take it or leave it. I’m not sure what’s happened inside my brain, but the chocolate button has been turned off.

My secret thought is that after enjoying some chocolate over Christmas, I might start the challenge again on 1st January 2020 and continue until Easter. Just a thought!

How is your mindset. Do you feel the need to reset occasionally? 

 

 

 

 

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Comments

  1. Joanne Tracey says

    November 6, 2019 at 9:19 am

    I’ve recently introduced chocolate into my diet – a square of dark chocolate at night. I’ve never been a sweet eater (including chocolate) but a few months ago as part of my Excess Baggage challenge I gave up alcohol during the week…and immediately began to crave sweetness. The single square helps. You’ve done amazingly well.

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 12, 2019 at 1:38 pm

      Jo I’m hoping eventually I can do as you do and have just one square of dark chocolate.

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  2. Michele says

    November 6, 2019 at 11:09 am

    I love your little chocolate exercise because it shows what we can do when we put our minds to it. I might actually try this sometime, I am usually not so addicted to chocolate but have been wanting it more lately. sometimes I do better with no sugar than a little bit as sugar makes me want more sugar!

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 12, 2019 at 1:35 pm

      Michelle I’ve just found your comment in spam which is why I’ve taken so long to answer. I’m really interesting to hear about you going almost vegan. My daughter is fully vegan. As a vegetarian, I often think I’d love to turn vegan, but not sure I could forgo eggs and dairy.

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  3. Retirement Reflections says

    November 6, 2019 at 11:37 am

    Hi, Jennifer – Congratulations on your very successful “No Chocolate Challenge.” A few months ago, in a desperate attempt to address my husband’s inflammation, I began preparing only plant-based foods in the home (making our current diet 80% vegan). If anyone had told either my husband or me that we would be eating a mostly vegan diet, we both would have thought that they were crazy. Now, our diet just makes sense to us. We have quit craving foods that we thought that we would miss. It’s incredible how quickly our bodies and minds adjust when we are mindful in our eating. Great post! #MLSTL

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  4. Leanne | www.crestingthehill.com.au says

    November 6, 2019 at 1:18 pm

    Hi Jennifer – the woman who leads my exercise class always does chocolate-free-October and says eventually she might give it up completely. I think it comes back to moderation and balance – once you get past the stage of a particular food “owning” you then you can have it in little amounts (your Christmas treat) and then ease off again. I’m glad you’ve got yours so well under control.
    It would be really interesting for you to share some of the stuff you journalled from Craig’s podcast – your take on his inspiration might be really helpful to the rest of the Midlife community x
    Thanks for linking up with us at MLSTL and I’ve shared on my SM 🙂

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 7, 2019 at 11:33 am

      Hi Leanne I agree that moderation should be the goal. I’m hoping this no chocolate will just be a circuit breaker for me. I have been giving thought to a blogging series about my journalling thoughts but wasn’t sure if they’d be interesting enough. Thanks for making the suggestion #MLSTL #midlifeblogger

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  5. Sue from Sizzling Towards 60 & Beyond says

    November 6, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    Well done you, Jen! Mindset plays a huge part in our lives doesn’t it and we are capable of doing anything if our Mindset is right. My husband decided to give up alcohol as he had started to drink heavier than was healthy. I supported him and we have both not had any alcohol for almost 20 months. I think you get to the point where you actually don’t miss it. Thanks for sharing your challenge and maybe I’ll join you in the New Year. Great to have you at #MLSTL again this week. xx

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 9, 2019 at 2:16 pm

      Well done to you and your husband Sue. I’m hoping that I also get to the point of not missing it. At the moment I don’t miss chocolate at all. Hoping it lasts. Thanks for visiting again

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  6. suzanne vosbikian says

    November 6, 2019 at 10:52 pm

    Hi, I’m visiting from #MLSTL, your title intrigued me so I had to click and read. Good for you for self-imposing the chocolate challenge and for having such success. I am not a fan of chocolate,so that is not an area where I over indulge. But, I can relate in other ways. I love food and have trouble eating the right portion size to maintain my weight. We all struggle with something. Good advice to change your mindset to accept good habits.

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 9, 2019 at 2:14 pm

      Suzanne I’ve always been envious of people who are not addicted to chocolate. Hopefully I’m in the right path to being one of those people. Thanks for visiting

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  7. Christine says

    November 8, 2019 at 3:47 pm

    Good for you! It seems like you’ve mastered the chocolate urges. I don’t feel that I need to join in this particular challenge. I do have a small amount of chocolate in my life but I don’t feel obsessed by it so I don’t feel I need to eliminate it either. Bit like wine. I’m definitely an everything in moderation kind of girl.

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 9, 2019 at 2:11 pm

      Everything in moderation is the key Christine. Hopefully I can be moderate with chocolate now I’ve broken the habit. Thanks again for visiting

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  8. Denyse Whelan says

    November 8, 2019 at 5:03 pm

    Interesting and I admit the title drew me to read!! I have been a ‘reach for chocolate’ to soothe for a very long time. Once I had my mouth surgery many foods were out of reach but good old little circles of cadbury choc could be melted on my tongue and they helped me feel far less deprived of food and enjoyment. For 14 months it was all about ‘getting what I could inside me’ in a challenge that was related to no top teeth.

    I recently read (and listened to) Dr Jud Brewer who is an expert researcher on Cravings. He listed the typical ones: alcohol, food and tobacco. He says tobacco is the hardest one to ‘give up.’ As I knew I used chocolate (and some other foods) to sooth my emotions I have been able to learn “where the need to consume” is coming from and let that pass.

    So good for me to know this and I pay more attention to the “what” I want to eat versus the “why” of eating too. I am of course a work in progress.

    I wish you well in your endeavours. Moderation. So good IF we can do it!

    Denyse #mlstl

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    • nextphaseinfitness says

      November 9, 2019 at 2:10 pm

      We are definitely a work in progress Denyse. I’m sure there will always be something we can do for improvement. Just need to keep striving. Good luck to you. I’m always inspired by your words

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